
Part of this list has been going online around for a while, I basically doubled the list and have posted it here for anyone who wants a reminder.
• Open all doors for her: on cars, buildings, gates, etc.
• Touch her softly and tenderly, even when you wrestle, remember she's not a guy.
• Let her sit on your lap, even if it's not always comfortable for you, it means a lot to a girl.
• Hold hands with her in public, or put your arm around her as you walk.
• Walk at whatever pace she walks, don't make her feel like she has to run to keep up with you.

• In areas where safety is questionable, always walk her to a public bathroom and wait for her.
• When she does something you like, let her know right then.
• Sometimes for no reason, just smile and wink at her.
• Help her out with her transportation problems, offer her rides for dates, help her put oil in her car, etc.
• Leave a little note for her somewhere she'll find it: in her car, in her bag, taped to her door.
• Put a picture of her on your phone or in your wallet.
• Ask her what her favorite outfit on you is, and wear it the next time you're together.
• Don't make her feel you care more about your car than you do about her.
• Go with her into girly stores, and don't make fun of everything.
• Text her, or email her just to let you know you were thinking about her.
• Keep an extra coat in your car, in case she doesn't have one and needs one.
• If she has a pet, be kind to it and at least once bring a gift for it.

• Give her extremely long hugs goodbye.
• If you're getting yourself something to drink or eat, ask her if she wants anything.
• If you can, pick her up sometimes, it could make her ridiculously happy that you can.
• Be nice and respectful to her friends, even if you don't like them, or they don't like you.
• Randomly surprise her with a flower.
• Never tell her to 'shut up' or call her a 'bitch' even as a joke.
• Never embarrass her in front of friends or family, show them you treat her right.
• Tell her sometimes that she is smart, strong, clever and kind, not just pretty.
• Wash her car for her.

• Occasionally help her make her bed in the morning, or turn down the covers for her at night.
• Always let her order first at a restaurant.
• Ask her what she thinking sometimes.
• Only have eyes for her when you're together, don't stare at other girls.
• Let her choose the music sometimes in your car or if you hang out together.
• Ask her to show you what she likes that you do to her.
• Tell her randomly sometimes that you care about her and like her.
• Compliment her on her talents and abilities. Be specific.
• Find out what she's self conscious of about herself and then be sensitive about it, never tease about those areas.
• At least once, let her see you cry about something, give her a chance to comfort you.
• Swing by her job to take her out for lunch, or bring her lunch.
• Offer her a foot or hand massage or stroke the underside of her arms.

• Sometimes tell her you like what she's wearing, how her hair is fixed, etc.
• If she does something embarrassing, don't make a big deal about it.
• Thank her for her time and effort, if she ever cooks you something even if it's horrible.
• Give her back rubs.
• Let her keep girl products (tissues, lotion, etc.) in your car or at your place.
• Tell her your secrets, about your childhood and things you don't tell other people.
• Gently grab her neck when you kiss her, it's a real turn on.
• Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.
• When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go, then kiss her.
• When she says she's "okay" don't believe it, talk with her.

• If you think she's a good friend, parent, sibling, etc. tell her so.
• Call or text her on special occasions and randomly before you sleep and after you wake up.
• Tease her and let her tease you back.
• Give her time to get ready and not be angry about it.
• Take care of her when she's sick.
• Let her wear your clothes sometimes (t-shirt to bed, hat while playing sports etc).
• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
• Start up/ warm up her car for her on cold mornings.
• Let her know she's important.

If you do all these things (even if you don't get married), she'll remember you for the rest of her life.
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